Taking a Tech Timeout

I was challenged to take a Tech Timeout – a daily break from technology – at least an hour a day for 3 days. Doesn’t sound so bad, right? My husband and I have an agreement when we go out to dinner together that our focus is on each other, not our phones, so this shouldn’t be hard to do at home as a family, I thought…

This post is sponsored by Tech Timeout, but all opinions are my own.

While I try to limit their screen time, the girls do get a fair share of it. If it’s not the iPad, it’s the Kindle Fire, Nintendo 3DS, or computer time… and TV, of course! Nowadays, even basic activities like playing a board game or reading a book mean pulling out the iPad. The girls didn’t quite get the tech timeout at first. “What?“, asked Maura. “Is the power going to go out or something?” She thought this was my way of preparing to be cut off from technology because of a storm!

As silly as it may sound, during our tech timeout we had to learn to find things to do that didn’t involve screen time.

Saturday
The first night we caught up on reading. We usually read together for 20 minutes each evening, so this was a bit of a challenge for me, especially. I probably read 15 books to Maura, almost losing my voice. But she LOVED it! “Read one more, mama!” she pleaded. I forgot to turn off the sound on the girls’ iPad, and when Maya heard the ‘ping’, alerting her to an iMessage, she had a hard time restraining herself from running upstairs to look for it, and I could tell she wasn’t quite focused on her book after that.

Sunday
Our tech time out started after dinner, and we decided to take a walk, then with our remaining time, get the girls’ lunches ready for school on Monday. Having 4 extra hands didn’t make things go any faster, but it was fun! We cut out cute shapes out of cheese, wrote sweet notes to each other, and I managed to make hard-boiled eggs without completely overcooking them, as I so often do when I’m distracted by the TV. Shutting off all devices an hour before bedtime made the whole process so much easier! The girls just seemed more relaxed when they went to bed.

Monday
Maura’s afternoon routine when she comes home from school is to either watch an episode of Lalaloopsy on TV, or play with the iPad for half an hour. It’s her way of winding down. Boy, was she shocked when I told her about the tech time out that afternoon! She thought were were “done with that”. Maya dropped her backpack in the front yard, and jumped on her bike. No problem there. Maura and I ended up picking tomatoes from our garden. Tiny grape ones, so that entertained her for a good long while. This is something I usually do myself, so it was nice to have a little helper!

Good news – I haven’t pulled out the girls’ iPad from its hiding place since last Saturday. Almost a WHOLE week! And they haven’t missed it. Ultimately, I don’t think they would have even noticed the tech timeout if I hadn’t announced it! Maya can easily play outside for an hour. Maura can sit and draw for an hour. But when I told them we were taking a break from screen time, they of course want what they can’t have!

I figured this challenge would probably be hardest for ME. I’m the one that always has my iPhone within reach, the iPad on the kitchen counter, the TV playing in the background, and my MacBook on the couch. The funny thing is that I actually enjoyed the time out. Not just because it allowed me to spend some quality time with my family, but because I think I need that time each day to disconnect. Getting my husband involved was probably the hardest part. When he’s at home, if he’s not on his computer, he’s watching TV. That’s something we have to work on! Here are some ideas of things you can do as a family without technology:

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Comments

  1. Brandy Davis says

    I think we need more family time together that doesn’t let technology lead the way. It makes for a stronger bonded family I think. Wish I would have thought of this, before seeing your post.

  2. Christina says

    I need a tech time out so I go to bed earlier lol. Otherwise, we went on a semi-tech time out a few years ago when my daughter was diagnosed with epilepsy and one of her biggest triggers is flashing lights of any kind, that includes TV, Video Games and Computers. The kids do get to pick TV or video game or computer a few times a week… and we do have family fun movie nights at least once a month. They love that and appreciate it so much more. We spend a lot more time playing outside… going for family bike rides…. playing board games… baking.

  3. deb c says

    We need a tech timeout because some days I will look around the family room and I’m on the iPad, my husband will be playing with his phone, my son and his friend on the blackberrys, and I think “something is wrong with this picture!”.

  4. vickie couturier says

    I enjoy my grandchildren so much more when they dont have anything techy to play with,,we got outside an plant flowers or blow bubbles use sidewalk chalk or just take a walk,,Ive told my daughter to just bring them over with no tech things,,,an I dont have any for them to play with here

  5. Vicki Wurgler says

    because the kids are too involved in technology it’s nice to spend some time with the family playing games or going for a walk or bike ride

  6. Luna S. says

    It would be nice just to spend some time together that didn’t involve watching a movie or playing a video game.

  7. Brandy Fisk says

    My 12 year old is usually watching tv in his room and my husband on the computer while my 2 year old and I are cooking dinner. I miss having all of us in the kitchen.

  8. Austin Baroudi says

    We need a tech timeout because we constantly rely on technology to keep us entertained and I hate it! Something not tech related would be nice for a change!

  9. Pam OLeary says

    Between the TV, computer, cell phones and video games, I hardly see my son anymore. IT would be nice to turn everything off and sit face to face for a while over a game.

  10. Julia says

    I think it is health for the mind to have a regular tech timeout. We don’t have a lot else aside from books to read during our time outs from tech stuff.

  11. Sally G says

    As the kids have gotten older its gotten harder for them to put down their games, phones, mp3s and spend some time with me. I’d love this game set because I know it would give us a chance to spend some time having fun with each other.

  12. Megan Parsons says

    It seems like someone is always on the computer or xbox! It’s nice to have days without any tv, xobx, computer, ect!

  13. Nina says

    My family is same as yours — we hide the ipads and they take a while to notice, but when they’re out, they’re always on them!

  14. Dawn Monroe says

    We need a time out because the first thing my grandkids want to do when they come is use my phone or ipad. I want to visit , not watch them play on the phone.

  15. amy says

    both daddy and mom have smartphones, a blessing and a curse. we try to take a family walk every day with no technology.

  16. Andrina G says

    It seems like we are all so busy with our phones and computers we never sit and play family games anymore.

  17. Nikki says

    I think we spend too much time watching tv and playing video games. A nice game like this, where we would be spending time together and talking would be a good change!

  18. Cathy H says

    We need a tech-timeout for SO MANY REASONS! One reason is so that we can reconnect more often to the simple things like coloring books and blocks.

  19. Claire Rheinheimer says

    My husband spends a lot of time gaming on his computer, my almost 18 year old gets online on her phone and is constantly texting, as is my 16 year old. My 2 year old watches videos on my phone or plays games on that or the kindle and I spend time entering giveaways. My teens won’t even stay in the same room in the basement as me because they don’t get reception down here, they go upstairs. It’s ridiculous!

  20. Robyn Huffman says

    my goodness I completely read that wrong :) We need a timeout because it just seems like we never actually spend time together. I’m working on the computer, my husband is playing his video game, our daughter watches her favorite dvds… we’re in the same room yet we never interact anymore. I would love to shut everything down and have a major tech timeout.

  21. Linda Meyers-Gabbard says

    We need a tech time out because we spend to much time in front of the tv or on the computer.

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  22. Ashley (Kim on rafflecopter) says

    we definitely do! We need to focus on each other and spending time together, rather than tech stuff

  23. Wendy R. says

    We could use one simply because it seems everyone is in their own little world on phones, laptops, etc.

  24. Penelope Merriweather says

    My family needs a tech timeout because we become closer when we do the simple things like no tech to the dinner table and share about our day.

  25. says

    My older boys are addicted to their cellphones. They don’t actually have service on them, but they use them for app games and internet.

  26. Katherine Donovan says

    Between texting, video games, tv, and internet, our family could really use a break and enjoy each other one on one.

  27. Mary Dailey says

    It’s a time for parents and kids to just have fun and forget about everything else but the game. I still remember the fun times we had playing board games as a family because you don’t just play the game, you also interact about other things.

  28. Holly Storm-Burge says

    We’re always on the laptop or tablets and it’s a trend that I’m not happy with in our family.